We feature a series of case studies from our Restorative Justice ambassadors giving their personal stories. These are valued resource for professionals but also for those who may experienced crime and are considering taking part in the Restorative Justice process. The stories below are not to be reproduced without the express permission of Why me?
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Ann-Marie was the victim of bullying and learning disability hate crime on the bus. She was keen to convey her experience, be treated with dignity and respected for who she was.
So she worked with Restorative Cleveland to make a video talking about her experience.
When his son was robbed, Rob was given the chance to meet the young person responsible to explain the impact of his actions.
Meeting the perpetrator allowed Rob to fully move on from the incident, and lifted a weight off of his shoulders which he didn’t even know he was carrying.
Janika suffered a violent knife attack at the hands of her former partner. He was convicted for attempted murder and remains in prison. She said, “Taking part in restorative justice was the key that unlocked the door to my future.”
Teresa was sexually abused by her father when she was very small. He never admitted the crime, which caused rifts in the family. After years enduring trauma and with her father having passed, Teresa sought Restorative Justice.
Wendy was sexually abused by her father when she was 14 years old. He pleaded guilty and received a £20 fine and a one-year conditional discharge. Over 40 years later, Wendy met her father in a restorative meeting.
Sherrall was verbally attacked by a young person who refused to let her wheelchair pass. Worried that the police would not take her seriously, the incident was never reported. A few years later she contacted Why me? and took part in a restorative conversation.
Paul and his family were enjoying a normal evening when the doorbell rang and a gang of four men pushed their way into the house and demanded cash. The police arrived within 8 minutes, and the four men were subsequently arrested, convicted and jailed for a total of 64 years.
Seven years after he committed a violent attack on her, Lucy met her ex-partner in a restorative meeting.
This meeting gave Lucy the chance to gain closure and move on with her life.
Rosalyn’s attacker received three life time sentences for the crime committed against her. Fourteen years on, Rosalyn had the opportunity to meet him and ask ‘why’.
The Rogers’ son was killed in July 2009. Following the court, Dave felt a need to talk to the young man directly about the harm and hurt he’d caused
Just a few months after Rachel’s house was burgled, she was invited into prison to share how much hurt and harm he’d caused her and her family.
Their son was murdered in 2001. Ten years later, they sat down and talked to one of the young men who had killed him.
Viv and her husband were awoken during the night where they talked to the young man until the police arrived.
John Mcgowan is the head porter at Durham Cathedral. He lives on site. One night in November 2013 he became aware of noise on the roof of the Chapter House. He went to investigate and saw that four people had climbed up some scaffolding and were putting themselves in much danger as the roof is very high and there is a steep drop into the river at one side.
Kate Morgan’s daughter, Lona, died after her friend Ian Edwards lost control of the car they were travelling in. He was found guilty of causing death by dangerous driving and was sentenced to three years and nine months in prison.
“I was pleased that he’d got some sort of punishment but the length of the prison term didn’t matter to me. Twelve days or twelve years, it wouldn’t bring Lona back. Over the next few weeks I realised I still had questions I wanted answers to.”